My husband goes out west with his dad and uncles almost every spring to visit their wheat farm and do a little skiing. Usually my mom comes to visit me while he's gone, even before Ada was born. It gives us a little extra time together and keeps me from getting lonely. This year, Mom decided to spend the month of March in Florida so I decided to take Ada to visit her while John was away. (I had to take a day off work to watch her anyway so why not go somewhere fun?) I was definitely anxious about taking her on her first flights by myself though!
Luckily, I had a lot of support and good advice from friends. I also read Lucie's List's
Flying with Baby ebook which was a great resource. Here's a recap of what I did with a few others that I
wish I had done.
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| Ada's first flight |
Our flight left at 10:40am, not too early and around when Ada usually naps. We had to be up a little earlier than usual but not much. I packed almost everything the night before and made a list of the things I needed to pack in the morning (sleepsack, sound machine, toiletries). I fed Ada right before we left. The plan was to get a cab which are usually right outside our building but that morning was especially cold and there were no cabs to be found. Luckily, it didn't take too long to get an Uber.
Ada was a little cranky in the Uber but she hates stop and go traffic and traffic was pretty bad. Once we got to the airport, she was good. We checked in and checked our bag. It wasn't until I got to the TSA PreCheck security line that I found out I needed an infant boarding pass for Ada. It took me a few minutes to get that and then we were back in line. I took the car seat, stroller, and Ergo (borrowed from my coworker at the last minute after I realized our Baby Bjorn would not work for me alone). I put Ada in the Ergo before getting in the security line. The only other things I carried were her diaper bag backpack and my purse. I kept my phone, our IDs, and our boarding passes in the outside pocket of my purse so they were easily accessible. Everything had to go through security! The car seat went through upside down and the stroller just barely fit through the machine.
Once we were through security, we went to the bathroom. I changed Ada and put her back in the car seat in the stroller. We went to our gate and I fed her while we waited to board. I wore Ada in the Ergo to board the plane, leaving the car seat and stroller to be gate checked. On our flight to Tampa we sat in the aisle seat in the very last row. When we got to our seat, I just took the shoulder straps off and left the Ergo around my waist. The hardest thing was keeping Ada's head or feet out of the aisle when the flight attendants went through with the carts while I was feeding her. The young couple seated in my row was super nice. They made funny faces at Ada to entertain her and the guy let me put my drink on his tray since there wasn't enough room to open my tray with Ada on my lap.
Of course, Ada pooped on the plane (both times) so I had to change her in the bathroom. It actually wasn't as bad as I thought it would be! I just took the changing pad, wipes, and a clean diaper and left everything else in the seat. She really did great until we landed and were waiting at the gate. She breastfed on takeoff and then slept for about 20 minutes. Then she was awake the whole rest of the time. I tried to feed her again on the descent but she refused. She sucked on her pacifier intermittently as we landed. Once we got to the gate and she got fussy, the flight attendants invited me to stand with them in the galley. She calmed right down with new faces talking to her!
Once we deplaned, we found a bathroom again. I changed Ada first and put her back in the car seat. Then we were off to get our checked bag and wait for Mom to pick us up. The only thing I should have done before we left was feed Ada again. Rookie mistake (that I also made on the way home).
The flight from Tampa back home to Chicago was similar. We were there a little too early and Ada was tired so I pushed her in the stroller back and forth through the terminal until it was time to board. We had a window seat in the second to last row with two guys as our row mates. She fed on takeoff and again an hour or so later and then slept all the way through the landing until we got to the gate. The guys did a good job of ignoring my breastfeeding and were understanding when I needed them to move so we could go to the bathroom. The ladies behind me were super nice and asked if I needed them to hold Ada while I went to the bathroom. I think they were a little disappointed when I said I was going because of her. Ha!
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| Ada's second flight |
This time, I consciously made the decision not to feed her because the Uber app said we'd be home in about 35 minutes. But, our Uber driver took a wrong turn and it ended up taking more like an hour. Ada paid him back by crying for the extra time it took to get home. Lesson learned: Feed the baby before leaving the airport!
In brief:
- Wear a carrier than can be removed easily
- Wear baby through security and to board/deplane so your hands are free
- Gate check the car seat and stroller
- Feed baby or offer pacifier on takeoff and landing
- Feed baby before you leave the airport!